quote: Rex Anyanwu wrote: The Beginning Of The End – Joe Eto’s Mess In Atlanta:
(A 72-Hour Ultimatum To Resign As Igbo Union President)
From Rex Anyanwu To Ndi Igbo In Atlanta and Beyond
Following my meeting with Mr. Eto at his home on February 1, 2005 in company of other close relatives and friends regarding chilling discoveries about his admitted intrusive inappropriate sexual relationship with my wife, Mr. Eto continues to make extremely malicious, derogatory and insensitive remarks to people about my personal integrity. He also continues to negatively engineer my wife to ruin me.
I have cried until my tears have dried forever. As a result of this, I have lost a wife that I loved and cherished so much. I have lost my fulfillment of the last order, including my beautiful children and properties forever. Therefore, Mr. Joe Eto, this demand is serious because what I have for you is raw and X-rated and the whole world is ready to watch it including your poor kids. You will never mess with me again in your life.
Based on overwhelming explosive infra-moral issues pertaining to Joe Eto’s expressed and repeated active extramarital activities with other people’s wives as rumored here in Atlanta and elsewhere, which have unwittingly compromised his position as the President of Igbo Union Atlanta, Mr. Eto is by this notice given an ultimatum to resign gracelessly as the president of Igbo Union Atlanta, and as the leader of Igbo Community in Atlanta, Georgia. This is because he lacks the moral turpitude to continue to lead ndi Igbo. Your daughters and employees will receive this message and an SOS emissary has been sent to your father in the form of OMU to restrain you from future helpless mess in the community. Whenever you see Mr. Eto coming, hold your wife tight.
The hour count starts today February 19, 2005. Considering the sensitivity of the graphic details that would inevitably follow if this demand were not heeded to, I ask all FORUMITES to stay closely tuned for further action at the expiration of this notice in the next 72 hours.
It is only a morally bankrupt psychopath that would coldly and insensitively hastily declare to run for WIC’s Chairmanship in the face of a family break-up and disaster made inevitable by his insatiable appetite for seducing young women of his daughters’ age to unholy sexual interludes, as he desecrated his matrimonial bed.
Please stay tuned for more saturated factual details as captured both in print, camera and audio over a period of time as it relates to Joe Eto’s intrusive grip and pervading endless suggestive orgy to a wife in a household he vowed before God to guide and nurture at their marriage.
Sorry Mrs. Pat Eto, you cannot sweep this under the carpet as usual. It is high time someone stopped you from condoning your husband’s congenital sexual devilish escapades.
It is an abomination and taboo in Igbo land for a “Dog to eat the bone hung on its neck” for custody. Joe Eto as our God custodian has done just that. The wrath of the gods has demanded for his castration. My good people, the time is now. And to those Eto’s mindless sycophants who see no evil and say no evil, May I Warn You to be careful because your own wife may be next in the list, because I had Mr. Eto’s activities for the last twelve months watched and I know what I have and what I have seen. The contents of this letter are my personal opinion and message grounded in facts.
For your candid information, Spouses cheaters network are ready to air Mr. Eto’s dirty knelling in the public television .I will sign a release a minute after 72hours if you play any game or refuse to resign. Be advised.
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Rex Email me through this forum, You and I are from this same Village and almost married from the same family. I was in Atlanta Last year during our Alaudo convention, but you never mentioned that you were going through this. Brother this is a serious allegation here. Please lets talk.
From beginning I smelled rat in this post. Not only did the "72 hours" puny ultimatum elapse with ignominy, this fella claimed to be in Cali whereas the allegation happened in Atlanta. What's up? Moreso, I spoke with two gentlemen from Mbano and Mbaise in Atlanta over the weekend regarding this allegation and both of them waved it off as instigation by one ugorji as a way to eliminate his political opponent in the upcoming WIC/WEAK election in Los Angeles. Here you have it from the grapevine folks!
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MeBiafra Mr Rex is from my village. I have made some inquiry reagarding this, there is a feud between them. Unfortunately The Mr Eto I heard is Mr Rex's Marriage God Parent. There is a lot more going on there in Atlanta. I thinkdivorce and marital problem is becoming an alarming problem in the Igbo community here in Diaspora. For so many years the stability of Igbo Marriages have been the corner stone of our family foundation, that is changing.
When you contrast your statement “Mr Rex is from my village. I have made some inquiry reagarding this, there is a feud between them” with mine “instigation by one ugorji as a way to eliminate his political opponent in the upcoming WIC/WEAK election in Los Angeles” it becomes clear we’re saying the same thing. There’s a problem between the two warring ‘relations.’ Please allow me to go a step further to remind us that the failure of K.K.O. to produce the promised video tape with an update after the expiration of the “72-hours” ultimatum weakened his position and cast his credibility in doubt. My interaction with the two fellas whom you may know in Atlanta yesterday morning is the basis for my posting as a NEUTRAL observer since I do not know any of the parties. As for the wholesale welcoming of the western divorce culture by Igbo women, I agree with you a thousand percent. The madness by our womenfolk to get carried away simply for making a decent pay at work should be checked. It led them embrace the ugly western culture of throwing a man out on a whim. Woe betide my wife if she should employ such tactics. I’m not given to chauvinism as a way to treat women but certain things are not meant to be toyed with, a woman should know her place even the Holy Book said so.
So, Biafra let me ask ya, did this horny Donatus of a lady screw over her husband?
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If indeed this is true, My prayers go out to the children and all involved. When it comes to marital problems, it takes the grace of God and support of friends to get over it.
Using cheaters network and airing ones dirty linen in the public will not solve the long term implication, rather the children will be suffer more and the parents involved be rediculed.
According to Igbo Tradition, inviting elders, seeking counselling will be a better approach. And if one partner is tired of the union, it is best to dissolve amicable and even remain friends for the childrens sake. I know this is hard to do especially when the man is responsible for bringing the wife to the United States. But, other approach might be sensational, but will not heal the wound.
I know of several families that are going through tough times here in KansasCity, some have even broken up because of irreconsilleable differences. The Devil is fighting hard to disrupt marriages and the best way to fight back is through prayers and getting close to God.
Many women are finding out that they can make demands of their men and stick to it. It behoves us men to do whatever we can to meet such demands. When a woman is concern about sex, this is America, show her you can do all you can to find solution. There is medication for all kinds of ailments. The time to accuse your wife of been a whore is past because she wants sex. Do what you can to help her and your self. Faithfulness is two way street, We men should try as much as we can to be faithful to our wives.
Even though some girls use men to get to the United States, open your eyes, pray before you get involved with a woman. When you see Nigerian home movies, you will notice that girls at home are no longer what they were when we left Nigeria. They are wiser and could pretend to get what they want. Also, when you have to adjust your status here in the United States by marriage to an '*****' treat them with respect because a time may come when you may reap what you sowed.
A wife is the aradite that holds a family together, no wonder the bible says that he that findeth a good wife findeth a good thing and is blessed. You days on earth may be determined by the woman you choose to be your wife. Finally, Prayers and getting close to God will help us all in dealing with marital problems.
God help us all!
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quote:Woe betide my wife if she should employ such tactics. I’m not given to chauvinism as a way to treat women but certain things are not meant to be toyed with, a woman should know her place even the Holy Book said so...-Mebiafran
Mr Mebiafran I'm curious. Would you be so kind and show us exactly where in the "Holy Book" the place of the woman is defined? Also, don't you think you are disloyal towards your wife when you call "woe" upon her in an internet forum?
Thank you.
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Right now is hard to say what is fact and what is not. One thing I can say for certain, it mr Anyanwu's marriage is on the rock right now. When a man moves out of his house, that is American style not Igbo culture. Like you rightly pointed out, if for any reason God forbide, my wife causes me to move out of our house or seperate, that will be it.
quote:I'm curious. Would you be so kind and show us exactly where in the "Holy Book" the place of the woman is defined?
Dear friend, as your handle implies I take it you know a thing or two about the Holy Scriptures, right? But please allow me first to disclaim any religious authority on my part I do nonetheless know that what I stated is in the bible, for example, ”In 1 Corinthians 11:2-3, we find that the husband is to submit to Christ as Christ did to God. Then the verse says that the wife should follow his example and submit to her husband.” Before I yield my remaining time to Nwa Afor who is better equipped to handle your question, let me throw in one more citation from the Book. [And God said to her, "Your husband shall rule over you." (Genesis 3:16-19)]
quote:Also, don't you think you are disloyal towards your wife when you call "woe" upon her in an internet forum?
Well, you might have a point here although I could argue that Internet forum or not, the fact remains you do not know her so what I said do not make much of a difference. The use of “woe” is to emphasize the severity of what this guy’s (K.K.O.) wife did. It was wrong for her to f.u.c.k around like she putatively did instead of using the more decent option of annulling the marriage before pursuing her sexual thirst. You did loose your mind if your wife committed adultery, wouldn’t you? My friend, believe me as I said earlier, I’m not a supporter of male chauvinism I only want the women to know that there are certain things nature has made to be so, which I’m not at liberty to go into details here.
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Mr. Anyanwu's wife committed the grave sin of adultery. When the bible tells the husband to love the wife, it never told the wife to do same rather it told the wife to submit and respect the husband. A wife that cheats on her husband has committed the highest form of disrepect to her man. She has opened the man up for ridicule and failure.
A woman is supposed to be a vessel of honor in that she concieves and bears children. the pain of labor is a reminder to women about the need to submit and be respectful to their spouse. May be that is why in our tradition and in the old testament a man can marry as many wives as he can afford.
My wife always says the man is the head of the house while the wife is the neck. The head can not stand straight without a neck. What ails the neck definetly affects the head.
My prayers is that Mr. Anyanwu should leave all in the hand of God. Vengeance is the Lords. Further actions against Joe Eto may backfire, especially when the marriage has children. After all his wife opened the door to Joe who has a covetous spirit.
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Thank you, I knew you would come through. So, my friend Judges113, here you have more clarity to your inquest.
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quote:It was wrong for her to f.u.c.k around like she putatively did instead of using the more decent option of annulling the marriage before pursuing her sexual thirst.
Oh my gosh! I laughed so uncontrollably that my boss ran into my office to see what the heck made me laugh so loud. I could have been fired, and you Mebiafran could have been in serious trouble with my wife.
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So you noticed Bababoyz said he now has a job, wonders shall never end, abi madam don vex ?
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The problem is Rex probably never had a marriage. This is what happens when you want to live in America with BiafraNigeria ideas. The signs would have been there long ago, but the fellow probably decided to ignore it thinking things will get better. If your wife is bold enough to sleep with your family friend, she will not give a damn about what any elder has to say.
This guy should have divorced the lady long ago, I hope he wasn't hanging on for the pay check she was bringing home. I have seen some people tolerate the intolereable on account of the woman bringing home an RN's paycheck. I wouldn't even bother fighting this if I were him.
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First, one needs to ask: how old is this guy, and how old is his wife? I hope it's not those grey-haired tired of life late 50ish who run home at the 11th hour for a teenager, then in a couple of years they start singing the blues just like my friend Rex. The only way out is to take Viagara, overdose, to satisfy his wife's appetite for sex.
Now this woman has made our in-house Yvette look like a saint.
Biafra:
Since you know this guy very well, advice him to frequent the red light districts like most of you do. That way, his wife will learn how not to cheat. Yes, most of you married folks, if not all, here in this villa are clients. Am I wrong?
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Rex is a young man, he is about 40 years old at most 42. I think the problem may have been what Chiboy said, from my understanding he met this lady here, so she is not one of those women you bring from home. Like chiboy said she probably doesn't give a dam, what any elder think
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Rex has himself and his religion to blame for what happened to him. I have said before that Africans need to stop making fools of themselves in the name of these foreign religions.
When a grown man decides to invite another set of penis into his marriage under the silly notion of "Marriage God Parent," that man has himself to blame when that penis is used on his wife. Exactly what role is a marriage god parent supposed to play in the lives of two consenting adults who are married? What happened to Rex is exactly what should have happened; it is Christianity at work.
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quote:...advice him to frequent the red light districts like most of you do. That way, his wife will learn how not to cheat. Yes, most of you married folks, if not all, here in this villa are clients. Am I wrong? – TB
When a grown man decides to invite another set of penis into his marriage under the silly notion of "Marriage God Parent," that man has himself to blame when that penis is used on his wife. – Cavalry
You two got me rolling. That was some good ones, you made me laugh. Like Cavalry said, I see no sense for a young couple to use a forty year old guy as "Parents" what for? If they must do it, why not use an elderly couple, much older, say sixtyish?
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If you are here and you are married, what happened to Rex could happen to anyone regardless of your age and your sexual drive. Prayers is the key! Even when the wife makes more money than the hubby, a respectfull wife will never let that get into her head. i have friends whose wives handover their RN checks to. I also have friends whose wives invite other men to the matrimonial home when the hubby is away at work.
Like i said earlier, the devil is bent on destroying marriages knowing that a good marriage is blissful.
Calvary, God parents helps newly weds overcome some of the initial stress of marriage and they advice couples based on their own experience.
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quote:Even when the wife makes more money than the hubby, a respectfull wife will never let that get into her head. i have friends whose wives handover their RN checks to.
Calvary, God parents helps newly weds overcome some of the initial stress of marriage and they advice couples based on their own experience. – Nwa Afor
Me too, I know of a guy his super ebony beautiful wife hands over all monies from her RN’s job in Maryland. Guys, this lady is a drop dead cuttie with endless humility but still recognizes “O” as the head of her family. This is not hearsay or fictional story, he writes all the checks I’ve witnessed this happen, folks. As I write, he’s been unemployed for more than two years now yet no noise is heard. On the latter, a forty year old guy does not in my opinion have the needed experience to counsel himself let alone others. It was a blunder to have chosen this guy, QED. The idea of a Marriage God Parents might be outdated if you ask me since the advice the so-called counselor dispense might be self serving as evidently happened to K.K.O. I tend to take Cavalry’s view that he invited a super active dick into his marriage and he should live with the poor outcome. The shame though is not on him, she’s the slut in this affair therefore homeboy should be glad God got rid of a public latrine for him. Who wants to live with a public stench? On the other hand, maybe “K” blew it he should have PIMPED the hell out of her, I mean use her to make a buck or two before kicking her to oblivion.
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